What do you think of lesbian love videos?

I have tested –with a previous question- whether I could pose this question and was advised not to be too explicit and to use “scientific” terms. I won’t be too specific, but have not a clue which scientific words to use. So do not be offended.
My new g/f and I love watching soft porn lesbian videos. I hate the word “porn”, what we watch is mostly lovely cuddling, snogging and yes, massaging girls.(no kinky toys!!). It is so sweet and it does stimulate us and we enjoy it. I am a girl of 36 and still feel something is not correct. What’s your opinion? Do you think it is vulgar, not-done, over the mark?