To all lesbian girls: I'm deeply in love with a girl, turned out to be a lesbian. How much is my chance?

'm a straight boy and fell in love with a very beautiful lesbian girl.
She told me that she wasn't a lesbian until her boyfriend broke her heart. That is when she met a girlfriend and became lovers.
But I love her very much and not giving up on her yet. I want to win her heart.

To all lesbian girls out there,
1) How much is my chance?
2) How to win her heart?
Please, I love her that much I need insights from her kind of people out there. Thank you.

I think im a lesbian and l love my best friend?

i really think im a lesbian im 19 and i have had a best friend for 7 years and i love her so much when shes by me i just wanna hold her and be next to her and spend every moment with her and when shes with other guys i get upset. when she holds my hand(jokingly) i love it and i could never tell her i was a lesbian and loved her it would scare her away i dont know what to do, andif my family knew they would hate me :( but i do find guys physically attractive and i dont find girls attractive! thats why im so confused. its just that i think i love her so much when she hugs me it feels right im so confused i want to die :(

What is gay,lesbian and love?

what is gay?
Gay originally meant in English happy. In modern usage, the term is often applied interchangeably with homosexual, though there are important differences between the terms. While "homosexual" relates specifically to sexuality, the term "gay" is a political or social marker. In homosexual terms: someone who practices homosexuality; having a sexual attraction to persons of the same sex. In gay relationships there are often a dominant and submissive partner, each depending to each personality
(Note: homosexuality means; a person who is sexually attracted to and/or has sex with someone of the same sex)

what is Lesbian?
A lesbian (lowercase L) is a homosexual woman. Lesbians are sexually and romantically attracted to other women. One could argue that one is not a lesbian (as a noun) but lesbian (as an adjective). This would depend on self identification, and is different for most lesbians/lesbian women. In simple terms; a woman whose sexual orientation is toward other women.
(Note: scientific researches proved that Gays percentages is higher than lesbians number, around the world, the reason of being gay or lesbian, is sometimes related to the production of female hormones in male body or male hormones in female body, and when the right male hormone is produced in a male more than enough this could lead to opposite reactions of producing the female hormones in the male body! .... Biology ... !

Why people fall in love?

Wow… that is a huge question, and I think you want the reason of some people falling in love with particular people… this is complicated, well in everyone body there are hormones that is alerted when the feel the presence of osmeone else certain hormones, that’s why your mind says “this is the one”…. Yes this is true, that’s why it’s not enough to see someone in a picture, and say this is my love, it’s takes your soul to feel the presence of this other soul around you, in work, school, house … that's also biology !
You may ask me How do you explain that? And I would say: science have found that two important characteristics, kindness and intelligence, are extremely important in the process of falling in love. And attractiveness is not connected to these things. These two attributes are things that people learn about someone from knowing them over time. Intelligence is important in all aspects of life, especially in love. But kindness is the strongest indicator for a successful long-term relationship.

Hope this helped … have a great day

I'm a lesbian in love with a married woman, I also live with her husband and kids- what do I do?

I'm a 23 y/o lesbian who was in a 'relationship' with a married woman for almost two years. We are no longer 'together', but I am very much in love with her. I also live with her husband and kids. Her husband doesn't know anything has ever happened. But, we are still intimate from time to time, and flirt like nothing has changed. What do I do?? I want to get over her, but I don't know how...

What to do in a lesbian love triangle?

Maybe not love but deep infatuation. The thing is this, I've always though one of my friends was beautiful, and the other day I was contemplating asking her out, on a date, more than friends. She confessed to me before I asked that she likes this other girl. Now here's where it gets weird, the other girl likes me and she had asked me out before, but my friend doesn't know that. I'm totally confused as where to go from here.

Why do I still have thoughts of lesbian love affairs?

my best friend was a drag queen and for a long time I was around bunches of gay and lesbian friends....(.girls do kiss better than boys ) and (women kiss better than men.)...I thought I was hetero but, now I don't know...and I ain't gettin no younger....HELP????

Tell me what should i do? lesbian love hurts?

me and my girl are lesbians, or bi.. we have been together for 3 years, and its both our first relationship.. she broke up with me 2 months ago because of the same reasons we fight about (sometimes i think it is wrong, but i love her).. now, she said we could try again, but i feel like she isnt trying enough.. i asked her again, and she told me to not force it, and just let time do the healing.. we tried for 2 weeks, still she isnt putting as much effort as i expected.. i asked her again what she really wants, and told me she doesnt know if she wants to be with me again.. she took it back, and told me she just wants to be friends now.. do you think im pushing it hard? should i let her go now? it seems that she wants to be with me too, she is just holding back.. i want her back moe than anything.. but i dont know what she really wants.. what do you think?

I love lesbian porn but I'm straight?

I'm not gay or bi, but I LOVE lesbian porn. I would just never personally sleep with a woman. Is anybody else like this? Lesbian porn just really turns me on and I love watching it.

Looking for Lesbian Love?

I am 23 not into the party scene. I am looking for someone special but am having trouble. I have tried every website possible and I live in a very small town with nothing to do and don't have money for pay sites...how do I go about finding someone great?

I have been single for 7months after a bad breakup. I am ready to move on and of course it won't be love at first, but I am looking for something real and waiting is hard but I have been doing it and no luck. Plus there are like zero lesbians in this town besides me...like I said it is very very small.
I have myspace, plentyoffish, okcupid, almost all the sites you can think of I have tried. And I can't afford to pay extra for certain sites.

I love lesbian, but I have trouble, any suggestion?

I have my husband with 2 sons, but I feel unhappiness because I found I was in fact a lesbian after I lived with my husband for 4 years . To find my true love, I join one great lesbian dating club http://www.ldate.com/i/b and incredible that I found my soul mate about one month later. She also love me very much. We had a great online chat and I could not wait to have a chat with her face to face. After having a face to face chat with her, she said she could not live without me, she wanted me to marry her asap. I also would like to marry her, but should I desert my husband and two sons? Please tell me how to deal with the problem, I am really in a bad mood and do not know how to do.

Why do lesbians love sex but straight women hate sex?

A lot of lesbians like to watch porn and love sex. One of my friend's is a lesbian and she does does amature porn and is always having sex.

Straight women... they hate sex. Want nothing to do with it at all. But why?

Why do lesbians love sex, but straight women hate it?

Is it sweet lesbian love??

First off.. we're lesbians... we've been together 5 months, but actually aren't together anymore. We had to break up because my parents are totally against gay relationships...so yea that's that. Anyways we broke up once about a month ago, and couldn't stand being apart so decided to sneak a relationship & got caught yet a second time. So i've now been transfered to a new school away from her which HURTS LIKE HELL!! I met a new girl there who i kind of like & decided to try and move on with this girl.. but i just can't get any excitment. My ex girlfriend is the same.. tried to move on but just can't. She ended up calling me tonight just to talk... we aren't back together but we keep telling eachother i love you's and calling eachother babe and baby again. Everytime we break up... we can't help but go back to eachother. & it's impossible to move on! Is this love?? The feeling is like... man i love her to death & i'm so happy to have her.. but at the same time is hurts like hell...

What is that movie called with the girl who's a lesbian but goes straight when she falls in love with this guy

It has a lot of dialogue in it, like a lot of fighting.

I want to say the girl is Renee Zellwiggersofijsdlk whatever but i'm not sure. She at least is a lot like her if it isn't. But yeah they meet and she's a lesbian but they end up falling in love blah blah and all this stuff. God I wish I could remember more....

Taiwan Lesbian Fashion Shop - Love Boat and others?

Hello!

I'm a Atlanta Fashion Designer who is very interested in this trend.

Do they ship international orders? wholesale?

Taipei Press reports there are lesbian fashion designers contributing to the scene. Where can I see their work?

thanks so much!

Why do I feel 500 times more heart broken when the girl i fell in love with left me for a lesbian rather than?

Why do I feel 500 times more heart broken when the girl i fell in love with left me for a lesbian rather than a man????????

Do you think this is my Karma for jacking off while watching lesbian porn???

I mean, I really get turned on by the sexual part of it…

… but when I want to connect to a particular girl, it really broke my heart…….

I mean...... it really breaks my heart soooo bad to know a girl is a lesbian, rather than being taken by a man.....

it really sucks.....

i wish i was a lesbian..............

This is a psychological question...... is there something wrong with me?

How do I approach this??

I lawyered up, but he says wife's lesbian love affair has no bearing on custody?

Technically she never cheated on me but fell in love with a lesbian. She's been depressed ever since her best friend of many years turned lesbian and started a relationship with another woman. We are in the process of separation now but I don't want my kids being exposed to that lifestyle AT ALL. Lawyer says courts don't care about lesbianism at all but we could make a case based on the depression resulting from it. When did we sink so low as a nation to allow this to happen?

What do you think of lesbian love videos?

I have tested –with a previous question- whether I could pose this question and was advised not to be too explicit and to use “scientific” terms. I won’t be too specific, but have not a clue which scientific words to use. So do not be offended.
My new g/f and I love watching soft porn lesbian videos. I hate the word “porn”, what we watch is mostly lovely cuddling, snogging and yes, massaging girls.(no kinky toys!!). It is so sweet and it does stimulate us and we enjoy it. I am a girl of 36 and still feel something is not correct. What’s your opinion? Do you think it is vulgar, not-done, over the mark?

Im so not lesbian cuz i love guys way to damn much but do u think it ok to be that way.?

i mean im so not lesbian...i love guys but do u think homos belong in the world. my sis is like that and i dont judge her but i wanna be able to not judge gays without changing my views on being against homos. so once again im not against the ppl just the **** part.

What was up with the Lesbian Love scene in V for vendetta?

I didn't see how it had anything to do with the movie and the ratings/reviews never mentioned anything like that.

What would i do if i'm in love with a lesbian?

I'm friends with her for along time and she told me that she's a LITTLE lesbian but i'm in love with her. What should i do. i need advices.

Can a lesbian love transguy?

Im a trans guy, and i find myself really attracted to lesbian girls. But is it possible that they could love me. Lesbians are awesome in my opinion, i can easily talk to them with like no pressure. They are great people, i totally understand them bc i once thought i was a lesbian but it was always way more. Could a lesbian ever fall in love with me, me being a transguy. Would they get all pissed off i told one that i love her.

How many anti gay, gay is an abomination/sin etc guys... love seeing lesbian porn and girls snogging?

How many anti gay, gay is an abomination/sin etc guys... love seeing lesbian porn and girls snogging?

or had lots of fun watching bucks night videos before marriage

or would love a 3some with 2 lesbinas?

ie how many are total hypocrits?

My daughter has told me she is lesbian. I love her to bits and support her fully, but I need educating quickly

I hope you guys aren't sick of me yet. My almost 14 year old daughter has 'come out' to me. I love her and I accept her for who she is, so don't be after telling me to take her to a priest.

My knowledge on the subject is virtually nothing. All I was able to say to her when she made her revelation was 'give me a cuddle.'

The thing is it puts everything on a new playing field, and I don't know the rules.

In my last post, I was advised to get a 'book for parents' - but where from, the bookshop in the nearest town has a few 'lesbian love novels' but no parents guides. We don't seem to have the backup in Ireland that you do in the US, or if we do, I can't find much.

A couple of people mentioned, for example, the facts of life discussion will be different, but how? I don't know how safe sex works for lesbians .

I want to offer her all the love and support I can, but unfotunately 'mum does not know best', and I want to be able to give her practical as well as emotional backup.

Lesbian Love vs Opposite Sex love?

Can a women love her man partner and get to love another girl or start likeing another girl i mean ok it can be but do you think scientificily and psychologically be stronger than the love from opposite sex? Is a same sex relationship more pure than an opposite sex relation? or its just cause a girl has a lesbian friend and just coz she thinks she likes her etc she will get paranoid and confuses lust with love? Which one will prevail? i want a professional taught on this please:)

Ready to move on but I can't seem to let her Go? Lesbian Love!!!?

I am 21yr. old colleger student who has been in a lesbian relationship for 8months and it seems like we are tired of each other but can't be without one another (not sure if that makes any since). We argue ever single day it seems like as the days go by it gets worse........ I have tried to leave her but she tells me she can't live without me and I fall right back into her love web....... I believe that we both have dominatiing personalities which clash because we both a stubborn and likes to have the final word in all arguments. I love her but I am not too sure if this is what I want anymore... She is the first woman I have ever been with prior to her I dated only men and then something happened and I met and fail in love with her....My friends believe that I am just going through a phase... I don't know what I am going through.. Help!!!!!

How do i know if i'm a lesbian? I love with my partner but confused coz i find some guys sexually attractive?

I'm 27 and had a boyfriend for 9 years before i found my girlfriend. I fell in love with her immediately and we've now been together for 3 years. Last year i met this guy who i fell for, and ended up cheating on my girl. I feel terrible about hurting her but i was so confused at where i should be. I love her so much. Please help me figure this out and share with me if anything similar has happened to you. Or am I the only one???

What experiences have men had in falling in love with a lesbian?

I would like to know what kind of things have happened to other men that fell in love with a Lesbian. How were you able to deal with these feelings, do you understand your attraction and was there any hope for love with them?

If lesbian's love women, why are most of them usually very masculine looking?

If they are going to date other girls who you basically can't tell whether they're a boy or a girl, then why doesn't the lesbian just date a guy. I have seen many lesbians who honestly look like men. I just don't understand it. I love women, I love women who look like women. Why do some lesbians like women who look like men?

Is it possible to bein love with a lesbian lady while you have your own finance.?

She is my friend but whenever she comes close to me i have the same feel i have for my finance and i don't know what to do, i try to control myself but i don't know.

The feeling i have for her is a romantic feeling is like am in love with her too and she too know whenever i talk to her the way she answer is like she knows my feelings. pls help

Stereotypes about feminists: How did it go from free love to being assumed to be a lesbian/gay?

"I used to go on college campuses 25 years ago and announce I was a feminist, and people thought it meant I believed in free love and was available for a quick hop in the sack....Now I go on college campuses and say I'm a feminist, and half of them think it means I'm a lesbian. How'd we get from there to here without passing "Go"?
- Molly Ivins, political columnist for the Fort Worth Star-Telegram & NPR commentator

How did stereotypes about feminists go from assuming a feminist was advocating free love 25 years ago, to assuming a feminist meant you were a lesbian today?